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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Week 12 and 13 -Will women ever stop sabotaging each other

May 27th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Business Coaching Podcasts · Free Audio Business Coaching · Your Business Coaches in the News · Communication and Influence Tips · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

Will women ever stop sabotaging each other in order to gain coveted top executive positions in business?

Click here to get “The Influence Code Podcast” on: The Apprentice TV show to listen to the conversation with Radio Host Wayne Kelly and Communication Coach, Deborah Micek

Who is more to blame for the so-called “glass-ceiling”? Women? Or men? Tell us what you think, and share your experience in business.

Coach Deb’s post-boardroom Analysis and Coaching Tips from weeks 12 and 13 of “The Apprentice with Radio Host, Wayne Kelly from KBS Radio

Lessons Learned from The Apprentice TV show (weeks 12 and 13) written by authors at Trump Univerity:

We can learn a lot from a “hindsight” perspective into the successes and failures of this week’s candidates.

Rule #1 in business:
Listen to your customers for what THEY want

Rule #2 in business:
Don’t assume you know what your customers want.

This business rule seems so simple, right?

But far too often, innovative entrepreneurs get in their own way. Or business owners and executives let their egos get in their way, and it costs them clients, sales and profits.

More important than the business lessons learned from this week’s The Apprentice, I’d like to hear from our podcast listeners and readers who have been hurt by the same type of behavior exhibited by Allie and Roxanne last week.

  • Have you been the victim of a co-workers jealousy, or gossiping behind your back?
  • How prevalant is this problem around the world?

I’m also curious to hear from you…

  • Are back-biting, jealousy and “petty behavior” (i.e. negative body language, including rolling eyes, making snide gestures behind someone’s back, gossiping, etc.) problems that only women seem to have? OR
  • Do men have to put up with the petty jealousy and vindictiveness that we saw both Allie and Roxanne exhibit as they rolled their eyes, and expressed negative body language toward their team leader, Tammie when they betrayed her in the boardroom?

Get caught up on the full Coaching analysis and re-cap of this week’s episode, (week 12 and 13) from the Influence Code blog highlighting The Apprentice podcast posing the question: Are women more ruthless than men in business?

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Deborah Micek is the “Communication Coach.” She’s a published author and weekly columnist for the Honolulu Star Bulletin. You can reach Deborah directly via [communicationcoach@gmail.com].

After seven years of painstaking research and thousands of hours in testing she and her partner John-Paul have developed a simple scientific code for unleashing your maximum performance, and profit potential. The INFLUENCE Code™ is the step-by-step system for taking total control of your business and getting all you want out of life!. Learn how you can Crack the Code @ www.theINFLUENCEcode.com

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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Week 11 - Sell! Sell! Sell! And then Differentiate your selling!

May 9th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Client-Centric Service · Business Coaching Q&A Corner · Business Owner's Coaching Secrets · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

WOW! Donald Trump’s “The Apprentice” TV show was better than ever tonight.

I got back from the gym 10-minutes after the hour, and when I turned on the TV, it sure seemed like the women’s team, Synergy was all doom and gloom and the men’s team Gold Rush really got a rush on things and was gathering momentum for “the big game”.

But, since the goal was to SELL the most - NOT throw the most entertaining frat party that New Jersey’s Rutgers University (and my alma mater) had ever seen.

The tables turned once they showed Michael in his over-confident display of machismo, telling the camera crew how Football is all about food, and partying and that guys like cheerleaders and guys like meat, and therefore, we got the girls beat.

hmmm… now that I think of it - was he trying to do a cheer here?

Once someone “thinks” they’ve got their competitor beat already - they won’t tap into their creative juices, nor their competitive drive to keep pushing to perform at a peak performance level.

The women on the other hand, were nervous that they guys already had their flyers out, Gold Rush sure had the RUSH on things, especially with them obtaining the exclusive rights to the Rutgers University Cheerleaders.

Gold Rush was out on the streets the night before, getting all the Rutgers students hyped up about coming to their “blue area” for the tail-gating party the next day before the Football Game.

Synergy, while taking a moment to feel a little discouraged, decided they didn’t want to “stay down.” So, instead of focusing on what Gold Rush was doing, Synergy looked at how they could maximize their sales.

And maximize their sales they did!

They decided to differentiate themselves, and their selling strategy. Instead of trying to lure people to their area, and “have a big grand ol’ party” that they obviously couldn’t compete with they guys on, they went TO the people.

They invented: Tail-gating delivery service! And it even came with a fun, Rutgers University cheer!

People will always pay more for convenience.

Let me repeat that:

People will always, always ALWAYS pay more for convenience, if the price is right, and if you’ve got what they want.

How could you increase your sales by offering more value to your clients?

This is a powerful influencing strategy, yet it takes very little to do. Because all you really need to do to influence and persuade your client base, is find out what they really, really want - and then give it to them!

Simple - right?

Oh - so getting back to The Apprentice…

Michael… Michael… Michael…

Sweet and fair Michael - who’s been trying to play the middle ground all throughout the game. Never stepping up to take risks like Tarrick and Lee have done. Trying to play under the radar, not push decisions, and always asking others for their opinions. Finally this strategy back fires when he feels compassion for his competitors who’ve been beating him for the past several weeks in a row.

Was he too over-confident that his team had this project task in the bag? Did he really think he needed to throw these powerful and successful women a bone?

Afterall, he even took pride at how in the end, their team had 25-35 cheerleaders verses only 3 women, from the other team, Synergy.

Ahhhh… but these three women weren’t just any women, Michael. They were Team Synergy! They were superior sales professionals who never, ever quit.

Even when they thought they were down and out - Synergy kept on going, and found a way to succeed - and apparently - this worked for them - since they beat the guys at Gold Rush by a whopping $1,000.00!!!

Copyright © RPM Success Group Inc. 2002-2006. Other bloggers and journalists are allowed to excerpt and link to posts (as is common with bloggers,) as full credit/attribution is given to theINFLUENCEcode.com and RPM Success Group Inc.

Deborah Micek is the “Communication Coach.” She’s a published author and weekly columnist for the Honolulu Star Bulletin. You can reach Deborah directly via [communicationcoach@gmail.com].

After seven years of painstaking research and thousands of hours in testing she and her partner John-Paul have developed a simple scientific code for unleashing your maximum performance, and profit potential. The INFLUENCE Code™ is the step-by-step system for taking total control of your business and getting all you want out of life!. Learn how you can Crack the Code @ www.theINFLUENCEcode.com

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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Coach Deb’s Analysis and Coaching Tips (Week 9) Ameriquest - Ellis Island

April 25th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Your Business Coaches in the News · Small Business Teambuilding · Business Coaching Q&A Corner · Communication and Influence Tips · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

Coach Deb’s post-boardroom Analysis and Coaching Tips from this week’s episode, Week 9 of “The Apprentice“

Yet another example of someone getting fired for their lack of interpersonal skills. More often than we may care to admit or acknowledge, people get fired for their poor attitude, inability to get along with others and communicate effectively with people whose opinion matter.

These “soft skills” will either help you win, if you’ve mastered self-influence, or cause you to lose sales, accounts, jobs, or positions within a company.

Gold Rush used several laws of influence and success to win this task:

  • Delegate to people’s strengths
  • Choose the right location - and get there first
  • Start early - get a jump on the day
  • Call more people than your competitors
  • Think differently
  • Think smarter

Lee is starting to show what he’s made of. As project manager for Gold Rush, the winning team of the week, he successfully led his team to victory, encouraged each of his team mates to strive to win on this task. Everyone got along better than ever, and his quest to think outside the box gave him an edge on this task - as it worked out!

Andrea, on the other hand, gets fired this week from Synergy due to the lack of chemistry with her other team players. She seemed to have an air of superiority throughout all the tasks in previous episodes. She may be bright, successful and a multi-millionaire in “real life” but if people get the feeling you don’t like them, they won’t feel good about themselves when they’re around you, and therefore will not like you as a result.

Bottom line: If your peers don’t like you - they’ll work to undermine you at any chance they get. People want to enjoy coming to work. And if you’re not making them feel good - then you may want to analyze if you’re making them feel bad.

Shmoozing isn’t such a bad thing once and a while. What do you think?

Are you a natural shmoozer? Or does it take a lot of effort to make people feel good when they’re around you?

Copyright © RPM Success Group Inc. 2002-2006. Other bloggers and journalists are allowed to excerpt and link to posts (as is common with bloggers,) as full credit/attribution is given to TheINFLUENCEcode.com and RPM Success Group Inc.

Deborah Micek is the “Communication Coach.” She’s a published author and weekly columnist for the Honolulu Star Bulletin. You can reach Deborah directly via [communicationcoach@gmail.com].

After seven years of painstaking research and thousands of hours in testing she and her partner John-Paul have developed a simple scientific code for unleashing your maximum performance, and profit potential. The INFLUENCE Code™ is the step-by-step system for taking total control of your business and getting all you want out of life!. Learn how you can Crack the Code @ www.theINFLUENCEcode.com

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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Coach Deb’s Analysis and Coaching Tips (Week 8) 7-11

April 11th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Your Business Coaches in the News · Small Business Teambuilding · Business Coaching Q&A Corner · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

Coach Deb’s post-boardroom Analysis and Coaching Tips from this week’s episode, Week 8 of “The Apprentice“

GOAL: New product at 7-11, increase sales by the greatest percentage at their store.

Wow - is Lee the politician or what?

He welcomed Michael immediately - which is a great trait of a corporate executive. Making people feel good should never be underestimated. It’s one of the number one laws of influence in business, whether you’re working for a boss - or you are the boss. And that was evident at the end when Michael expressed how he really did enjoy working with his new team - even though they lost the task overall.

I also really liked Lee’s creative ideas in selling in “bulk” instead of selling one-to-one. I just wish he would have negotiated a little more to close that deal.

Trump’s Success Clue of the week:

“Know Your Customer”

Andrea - Project Manager for Synergy - Control freak? Or really good leader? What do you think? (Express your opinions in the Comment section below.)

Synergy’s USP for 7-11’s new product:

Tasty food for life in the fast lane!

Synergy used several laws of influence in promoting their product successfully:

  • Excellent decision to associate celebrity status with their product
  • They had the celebrity touch the product, eat the product and smile holding the product
  • They started early - and tapped into the law of curiosity
  • They were on the streets with the people the night before to advertise the launch of their NEW product the next day

Leslie - finally becomes project manager. But she may have waited way too late to step up to the plate. And she clearly didn’t listen to her teammates or the customer. Seems like tonight - both Lenny and Leslie got the same thing wrong when it comes to influencing: they talked more than they listened.
Get the price right - and you’ll influence without any effort.

Copyright © RPM Success Group Inc. 2002-2006. Other bloggers and journalists are allowed to excerpt and link to posts (as is common with bloggers,) as full credit/attribution is given to theINFLUENCEcode.com and RPM Success Group Inc.


Deborah Micek is the “Communication Coach.” She’s a published author and weekly columnist for the Honolulu Star Bulletin. You can reach Deborah directly via [communicationcoach@gmail.com].

After seven years of painstaking research and thousands of hours in testing she and her partner John-Paul have developed a simple scientific code for unleashing your maximum performance, and profit potential. The INFLUENCE Code™ is the step-by-step system for taking total control of your business and getting all you want out of life!. Learn how you can Crack the Code @ www.theINFLUENCEcode.com

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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Coach Deb’s Analysis and Coaching Tips (Week 7) ACE

April 11th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Your Business Coaches in the News · Small Business Teambuilding · Business Coaching Q&A Corner · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

Coach Deb’s post-boardroom Analysis and Coaching Tips from this week’s episode, Week 7 of “The Apprentice“

Lenny (Goldrush) was as different a project manager from Michael (Synergy) as night and day.

Results from this week:

Synergy - hit the mark - because they understood the concept of incorporating teamwork and the flexibility and variety of the games available.

Synergy’s project manager, Michael mentioned “Teamwork” several times in his presentation. His team ticked me off this week, because they didn’t seem to want to give him any credit. Yet, it was his leadership and ability to listen to his client’s needs and then carry it out that differentiated his team’s success over the others.

Sometimes “Leadership is lonely” and that’s what Michael experienced this week.

Getting a new face from Ace - Michael even melded the ACE brand right in to the banners that hung in the room, seamlessly, as the executives from Ace Hardware Paula & Rick expressed as their goal during the initial interview.

ACE helps their community by helping the boys and girls clubs of America, project: “New Faces for Helpful Places”.

Goldrush - on the other hand, had a leader who simply “didn’t listen.” To anybody. To his teammates, to the executives, even to his partner Lee at the end when he tried to help Lenny stand up for himself in the boardroom. (What a great list he prepared too!)

As entertaining as Lenny has been up until this episode, I found him to be giving way too many excuses this week - which really didn’t seem like him. Frankly, I think he was just plain tired. The Game caught up to him this week. Arrogance will also kill you when it comes to managing and leading a group. He dismissed Charmaine, yet he wasn’t even there to see how much work she was doing while he was lost in New York.

Success Secret of the Week:

Often, success is all about “sticking-to-it” and perseverance.

What do you think about this week’s decision? Was it a no-brainer for you?
Were you shocked?

Or did you predict it from the get go?

Share your comments below…

Coach Deb

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NBC’s The Apprentice TV show - Week 6: Coach Deb’s Analysis and Coaching Tips:

April 4th, 2006· Filed Under: General Posts · Small Business Teambuilding · Business Owner's Coaching Secrets · Communication and Influence Tips · The Apprentice TV Show Analysis

Coach Deb’s post-boardroom Analysis and Coaching Tips from this week’s episode, Week 6 of “The Apprentice“

Whether or not you’re dreading the words, “You’re FIRED!” from Donald Trump on NBC’s popular TV reality show, The Apprentice or whether you want to “Get Hired” to work for someone, or simply want to earn a client’s business as a business owner or executive yourself, there are certain rules in business that you MUST follow in order to increase your influence, be admired, respected and ultimately - land the job!

We can learn a lot from a “hindsight” perspective into the successes and failures of this week’s candidates.

Rule #1 in business:
Don’t be late!

Back up Rule #1 in business:
If an emergency arises…

  • CALL your prospect, client, or potential employer to let them know you’re going to be late.
  • Give them your NEW ETA - and then - make sure you’re there at the new time.
  • THEN - immediately upon arrival - build rapport back up by immediately apologizing profusely for being late.

This sign of respect and humility does two things:

1st - and most importantly - it demonstrates to the other party that you respect THEIR time immensely and know how valuable time is.

2nd - it builds rapport back up - which will be CRITICAL in their decision making process when they decide whether to give YOU the job - or your competitor who organized their time well enough to be on time - the first time!

LASTLY - and this is a “DO NOT Rule”

Do NOT evade your clients questions - EVER!
ESPECIALLY when they are asking you directly about WHY you were late - or why your product or service doesn’t do x, y or z in their minds.

Bryce (Synergy’s Team Leader) seemed to “dismiss” Doug’s (Executive and key decision maker from Arby’s) question about WHY he was late by TRYING (quite unsuccessfully I might add) to deflect with his first point of the meeting - WRONGO!!!! This is not only another huge rapport breaker - it is ALSO incredibly RUDE!

Clearly, this was Bryce’s biggest mistake!

“Gold Rush also went to meet with the Arby’s execs, but they were almost a half hour late. When the execs asked Bryce why they were delayed, Bryce ignored the question and moved on to the task at hand.

Instead, if you satisfy a potential client’s concerns, or initial “hurt feelings” you’ll decrease their apparent frustration and be able to move toward establishing rapport with them.

However, if you pretend their complaint or point isn’t serious or real, then your client will quickly see how important they’ll be in the future, once you have them as a client.

Think of this process as “a courting phase”. If your date expresses something she (or he) doesn’t like about what you did or didn’t do on the date - would you just ignore their statement/frustration and then try to kiss them?

No! (Unless you’re a complete nimwit and don’t know the slightest about impressing a woman.) Instead, you’d address their concerns, discuss them, and “come to terms” so to speak in order to make sure all parties are satisfied and happy again.

THEN you move in for the kiss - I mean kill - I mean sale! LOL Well - you get my point by now - right?

Coach Deb’s conclusion at the end of Week 6:

Bryce was practically ASKING The Donald to fire him.

Especially when you consider the two people he decided to bring into the room.

Bottom line about the Game, The Apprentice:
Trump wants to PLACE BLAME somewhere.

What Bryce seemed to FORGET in the course of this game - is that “The Apprentice” is just that - A GAME.

It’s NOT a real interview.
It’s NOT a real company team - not yet.

It’s STILL a group of competitors - and as much as Bryce tried to “INFLUENCE” his “team” the night before about telling them how he’s not going to “throw anyone under the bus” he needed to remember that he was still playing a game to “Get Hired”.

Bryce’s biggest success:

While Bryce’s actions may be PERFECTLY respectable with a REAL team - and certainly wins points with the general public who watch him on the show - it unfortunately showed The Donald that Bryce didn’t know how (or didn’t want) to single out the person who contributed to their “loss” which is the SOLE focus with The Trump Brand.

In all reality, what Bryce did to bring this chaotic, self-obsessed team together during this episode, and how he did in fact win their respect as they all complied with his request for “A united front” demonstrates his leadership ability, AND showed him as a true influencer.

IF he ONLY would have used his influencing abilities with the Arby’s executives, Doug and Debbie - well - he might still be on the show.

Coach Deb’s FAVORITE PART OF THE SHOW:

Bryce’s LAST comment in the cab ride “home”:

“Maybe Trump should listen to other people once and a while.”

LOL!

IF only more people had the guts to talk to Donald Trump that way - it would make for a MUCH more entertaining show.

That was probably one of THE most HONEST feedback scripts we ever got from an Apprentice candidate.

Boy - if Trump were to look in a mirror - would he see Bryce?
Hmmmmmmmmmm
What do YOU think?

Enter YOUR comments below.
Let me know if you thought it was time for Bryce to go - or whether you thought someone ELSE should’ve been fired - and if so - why?

Coach Deb

As heard on The Wayne and Jayne Show
All Hit KBS
West Kootenay Region
British Columbia.

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